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Love is an emotion binding the entire universe including the tiniest creature on the earth. It exists in one or the other form in every one’s life. Love begins with an attraction for opposite sex which is often termed as crush (temporary love), which women develop quite easily. Now, crush has two consequences: one, the end before reaching any height; and two, transcending to permanent love. To achieve the permanent love, a woman, usually loyal by nature, tries to make all her efforts in the direction to please her man and create her place in his heart. But men, like the other facet of a coin, are complex species on the earth. If you are a woman reading the article you can very well relate to the basic theme of the article that says, ‘what makes a man fall in love’. We have compiled some very genuine, workable, and efficient tips here for you to use. Before proceeding further, we would also suggest you to use your intellect to find the best way to get him. Some get attracted to the physique whereas others consider intelligence and etiquettes as the appealing virtues. Find what could be the real turn on for the man of your dreams.
Be Honest Honesty is the essential element to get him fall in love with you. Dig deep within yourself and try to find out why someone should love you. Think about what’s there that is unique only to you, and differentiates you from the other women out there. This honest analysis of your personality would help you see yourself through other’s eyes and will show you the areas you can improve upon. Secondly, be true and honest with the man of your dreams. Even if what you feel is divergent from his opinion, speak up your view point. Similarly, honesty in your body language and actions will definitely impress him.
Recognize His Value Tell him that you admire him and his achievements; demonstrate that you value his efforts. Don’t forget that men like to ‘care’ and ‘protect’ others. Ask him to help you in the smallest of matters as it will make him feel valuable and recognized. And there is a possibility that he may start liking you back for the realisation of his worth.
Appreciate Him Yes, men are emotional like fairer sex. People many a times misunderstand them as rigid and far from feelings, but that’s not the reality. They also like to be pampered and loved. Appreciate him when you find something appealing and remarkable in his personality. Do not overdo this. Also, do not wait for other person to make the compliment. You won’t get noticed and would be considered as copying other person’s views.
Provide Him Emotional Safety Men need a ‘safe zone’ where they can rest after fighting with the entire world. They seek company of someone with whom they can spend good time without being questioned and compared. It’s simple and practical, isn’t it? So, next time when he comes before you, try to provide him the safe zone where he can feel emotionally safe.
Know Him Yet another important tip is to know him. It does not imply knowing about his address or which Empire’s dynasty he belongs to. Rather it is about knowing his personality, tastes, and preferences. Find out his likes and dislikes, fun things he loves to do, his favourite pastime, and his taste in music. Try to develop interest in the things he likes to do so that you two can hit it off together. However, if there’s something you just can’t work upon, or don’t want to, then it is better not to take that into account.
Display Your Feminine Strength Your feminine strength is the key to woo him whether you believe it or not. Show that you are emotionally, strong and have attained stability and maturity. When you draw a picture of yours as a strong lady with loving life he would get attracted to you with a desire to be a part of it. On the other hand, if you present yourself before him as a victim of misfortune, seeking someone’s ear to hear all her miseries, he’ll unquestionably be repelled.
Be Yourself No matter whether you love him or you feel that he is the one without whom you find your life meaningless, always respect your feelings and thinking. Stand by your side and do not change your views only in order to impress him. Also, remember not to allow him to trouble you just because you have good feelings for him. Love yourself and above all cherish yourself for what God has bestowed on you.
Stay positive and forward looking even if the worse may happen. Even if you can’t pursue him after a long hunt, be at peace with yourself. Always remember, ‘Whatever happens happen for Good’!