Wikipedia defines flirting as “a form of human interaction between two people, expressing a sexual and/or romantic interest. It can consist of conversation, body language, or brief physical contact. It may be one-sided or reciprocated.” Indeed, flirting is neither an offence nor an act to take seriously. It’s just an approach to find whether or not the person you just met can become your would-be soul-mate. People also take it as a fun activity for instant pleasure. Traditionally, flirting is considered as a guy’s zone but the girls today don’t lag behind guys in any field including flirting. Hey all the naughty girls, this article is written especially for you! Check out the next section of this article to know how to flirt with a guy.
How To Flirt With A Guy
Appropriate Attitude Do not flirt just for the sake of it. If you are not comfortable to initiate/respond to flirting in the same manner, do not go for it because it will make you feel embarrassed. Flirting is a fun activity which requires light mood and pranks. Have an easy-going and fun-loving attitude so that people feel good about you and you can also feel pleasure in flirting. Again, what you wear also plays an important role in making you at ease while flirting. ‘Wear your attitude’ is the best rule to follow.
Correct Body Language Body language is an important factor in deciding whether or not you will get responses with equal zeal. Always be cautious about your body language and actions, they can pull him into you if signalled properly. On the other hand, they can spoil your image if your body language reflects cheapness and low self respect.
Live By Heart Guys like girls who are confident, secure, and able to take a stand of their own. Reflect that you enjoy your life and being a colour of your canvas would be a pleasant experience for him. This will develop his interest in you and almost half your work will be done. Crack the jokes, giggle, and laugh with him. He’ll appreciate your sense of humour and openness. But mind it; do not over laugh on not-so-good jokes as he will catch your fake laugh. Better to handle such situation with light sarcasm as you do in your daily life.
Convey By Casual Touches Make casual touches to convey your interest. It is one of the best ways to flirt. While talking to him, hold his hand or touch his arm. You can touch his arm while laughing on his jokes, he’ll feel connected. Or, hold his hand as a part of palmistry.
Praise Him Who doesn’t like appreciation and favourable comments? If you find something worth praising in the person standing next to you, praise him. It would be an ice breaker for you to show your interest, and who knows, the two of you may spend a long time together.
Be Accessible Whenever you find some interesting guy with whom you want to spend some good time (or take it as flirting) make sure that you are not someone unapproachable and inaccessible. If you are in a party crowded with people where you find someone interested in you and you are also attracted towards him then act smartly. Take some time sitting alone so that he can come to you and initiate the talk. Yes, you stuck the deal very well!
Reflect Feminism You can behave rapidly in front of your friend circle or in your family. But when you are with him or his friends are around you, reflect the lady within you. Speak softly and in a decent manner. Avoiding shouts and rudeness is the key to succeed in flirting.
In all, flirting with a guy is not really a tough task. Just remember above mentioned basic tips and you will become an expert at flirting. Happy Flirting!