You are quite bothered from past couple of weeks as your new colleague is making you feel awkward at times. Though she has really been nice to you and you are the only person who feels so, but you are sure that there’s something doubtful with this girl. You have a little inkling that she is into you but the signals she is sending your way are such that can be deciphered either way. You are also a little apprehensive about the way in which you should react to this situation as you don’t want to come up looking like a complete stupid. From the above case, we can certainly make out that you are quite new to the dating and flirting game and this statement is bothering you. So, just hold our helping hand to come out of this slush. We are listing here a few common signs which will show that a girl is making advances towards you.
Signs A Girl Is Interested In You
- If a girl is interested in you, she will ask about you in your absence and even when you are around, she will continue asking about you at your back. She will try to gather a lot of information about you before actually coming to you. Girls too want to leave a great first impression and hence research about you before actually talking to you.
- She will enquire about your status, if you are single or not, when was the last time you went out with a girl, etc. She will try to gather this information as subtly as possible. This is almost as assuring as asking you out.
- She will try to grab your attention by doing different conventional and unconventional activities, like challenging you and at times even teasing you. When a woman starts getting playful, it means that she has certain amount of interest in you and then it is over to you to build up the rest. Giving nicknames is also a part of this game.
- She incessantly laughs at your jokes. Though you know that you are a funny man but at times you find her laughing even at some of your serious comments.
- She initiates a physical contact and if you make a physical contact, she seldom resists or maintains the physical contact initiated by you. Like every time she laughs, she prefers touching your hand and when last time your foot touched under the table, she didn’t try to move it away and left it at its place.
- She compliments you though she knows that it will make her look desperate, still she does that whenever she finds an opportunity. This is her way to clearly hint you about her interest in you. This is probably the most she will do and hence this is a major sign that a girl likes you.
- She, at times, becomes quite annoyed with you but she does this in such a playful manner that it seems clear from her demeanour that she has fallen for you. At times, she is upset about petty things and wants you to notice it because you are the one who is able to stir emotions in her.
- She wants you to show her how some things are done or otherwise she wishes you to teach her own things. This is solely done to buy some time alone with you. You will really be able to see that all learning thing is a sham as she won’t even be bit interested in the things you will be teaching her.
- She will try to elicit a few reactions from you and for that she will try to make you jealous, provoke you physically or sexually, etc. So keep a check on stories she tells which will usually get a reaction from a guy, like an affair or something else in such terms.
- Some women at times lower their voice in a sexual husky manner so that they can gain some intimacy by moving closer. Keep an eye on this one as this is one of the prime signals that she has got hots for you.
- She agrees almost on every opinion you have. This shows that she is trying to come into an agreement with you, almost at any cost. This is one of the psychological signals because we try to follow the person with whom we want to be in agreeable terms.
- Eye contacts and expressions are a couple of things which speak volumes. If at times you catch her staring at you and when you turn to her, she either shy away or makes an awkward eye contact, it means she is falling for you. Her expressions while you make an eye contact with her reveal volumes.
So, follow these signals and if you are able to make out two or three of these signals, it means you have struck gold as you now officially know that the girl likes you a lot.